How To Survive Seasickness

seasickWhile living in Huntington Beach California a friend invited me on a three day deep sea fishing trip off the coast of Mexico. We were to leave the port of San Diego on a Sunday night and fish until Tuesday night. I was pumped. I love boats and boating and the water. I raced home from my weekend speaking commitments to meet my friend for the drive south from Huntington Beach to San Diego. We got some dinner at the harbor and boarded the boat. It was about thirty feet. there was six of us plus the crew of three. I sat at the back of the boat and watched the city lights dim as we pulled out of the harbor into the Pacific. We talked of the fish we’d be hauling on board the next day as the crew taught us the basics of how to use the equipment on board. Our target was tuna and we were hoping for a great catch. As we chatted I noticed that everybody else, except the crew had a little patch behind their ear. I didn’t. I didn’t think much of it and we all went to bed. We’d arrive at our spot sometime during the night and we wanted to be ready to start fishing as soon as the sun started to rise. I noticed I didn’t really feel well while lying in my bed so I stayed up on deck and tried to catch some shut eye. As the horizon disappeared I realized I didn’t feel very well at all. I tried to stay very calm, and close my eyes. I’d never been sea sick before and I gotta tell ya, it wasn’t very pleasant. A crew member noticed my predicament and told me that he’d had folks on board offered him $10 thousand dollars to get them to shore. Only problem was I didn’t have $10 thousand dollars. It got worse. We arrived at our destination and the boat just rocked in the waves. Up and down, side to side. Normally I would have thought that was cool, not today. I’ll spare you the details, but it wasn’t pretty. As the sun came up a crew member told me to keep my eyes on the horizon. I did what he told me. Over time I settled down and the steadiness of the horizon calmed my stomach. I caught six beautiful tuna and we had a great time.

Odds are you might be working through some turbulent waters just now.  It could be because of the expansion we’re working on at church. It might be because of your marriage or work life. Lots of things cause turbulence in our lives. But we don’t need to suffer from sea sickness….. we can keep our eye on the horizon. For those of us who trust Jesus, he is the horizon, and he will provide peace in spite of whatever is causing your stomach to church.
Philippians 4:6-7: Don’t worry about anything; instead pray about everything. Tell God what you need, and thank him for all he has done. Then you will experience God’s peace, which exceeds anything we can understand. His peace will guard your hearts and minds as you live in Christ Jesus. 
The Horizon doesn’t change and it will give you a fixed point of reference from which to steady your soul. All of God’s promises are true for you and for us. The best is yet to come.
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Option 1; Not So Obvious

option 1Our church is in the middle of a great opportunity. We’re one of the fastest growing churches in the country, our building is full and we need to figure out how to keep helping more and more people meet God for life. As we’ve discussed, we have three options; we could do all we can do to forge our own future as best as we can. We could establish some kind of strategic partnership with someone that could help us learn how to handle the next thousand people that God will entrust to our care, or we could join our resources with another church that has already been where we are and work together to expand up and down the Susquehanna Valley.

When most people first hear those options the one that seems most obvious is option one. “Obviously this is working” they’ll say, “Just find a way to keep it going.” Therein lies the issue.
The first issue we have to deal with is sustainability. That simply means we can’t really sustain the pace at which we’re going. Our staff is already doing more than they can do long term. In order to provide sustainability we would have to eliminate things we’re doing that are sapping resources from the things that are most effective. Those decisions will be very difficult because we’re not doing anything that someone is not passionate about. We could always hire more staff, but the problem with that is that we’re already paying 55% of our revenue in staff expenses. That’s a healthy percentage, but hiring more people would consume more of our revenue than is healthy therefore consuming funds needed for ministry.
The second issue under option one is our facility. It’s in need of expansion and updating. We estimate that expense will be in the millions. The reason we have avoided a capital campaign is because we haven’t wanted the distraction that they can be. Without the right expertise in raising capital funds, raising those funds become all encompassing and therefore a distraction from the mission.
The third issue is that the urgency of our mission doesn’t provide the luxury of only sustaining what we’re doing. There are thousands of people up and down the Susquehanna Valley who desperately need meet God for life.
So, we’re faced with the need to expand when our systems, staff and structure are unable to keep up with what we’re already doing. In addition we’re facing facility issues that are complex and expensive.
Option one is a viable option and we’ve spent more time over the last few years on it than any other option.
But I think its important that the whole family understand the complexity of what option one really entails.
All that to say that the most important thing we can do in the next few weeks while we work hard evaluating our options is pray. This Tuesday the elders are asking that the whole family devote the day to fasting and prayer. Resources are available to guide you through your participation.
We are a blessed family. Producing fruit for God’s glory is the highest call of humanity. God has been relentlessly faithful to us. As we trust him and obey him more fruit for His glory will be produced. Nothing could be better. Our best days are yet ahead. Please feel free to contact me directly (pastorscott@ebchome.org) with any questions or comments.
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Control The Elephant!

elephant_lznp-3234gThere is a huge elephant in the room at ebc right now. It’s an imposing gray color with long, white tusks protruding from both sides of it’s enormous trunk like civil war cannons. Sometimes the elephant moves and when it does everything shakes. It’s instinctive to grab on to anything that feels stable to make us feel more comfortable, to help us feel at ease. Occasionally the elephant snorts and swings its massive head and when it does we just want it to go away. The last thing we want to deal with is the mess of this imposing pachyderm with its leather-like skin, sometimes pungent odor and ever present uncertainty.

But, alas the elephant is here. As a family we stand gloriously at the precipice of a future filled with more fruit for the glory of God than we’ve dreamed possible. But between the familiarity of today and the promise of tomorrow is this big stinking elephant. We see it everywhere we look and sometimes all we can see is the big gray blob.
Transition, change, improvement always brings with it a big ugly elephant that plants itself right in the middle of the room. Everybody has to walk around it and deal with it standing there.
But you can control the elephant. You can’t control that its there, but you can control your response to it. You can choose to see past the elephant and focus on what is just behind it. Do you see what is behind this big elephant at ebc right now? Just beyond that big thing is a church reaching even more people up and down the Susquehanna Valley. It’s a church that has solved its facility issues and has the capacity to reach two to three times as many people as its reaching today. It’s a church that is reaching out to children and students and has the capability to meet them where they are and help them meet Jesus. It’s a church that has even more stories of marriages healed, addictions defeated, new life received. It’s a church planting new churches in under served areas around north east and central Pennsylvania. One thing ebc has done a lot of in the past 13 years is deal with the elephant in the room. This one is nothing special. We know how to do this, we’ve done it before and this time will be no different.
The mission is too important to let an elephant stand between us and more aggressive pursuit of those who most need new life. The best is yet to come. I know that ebc is going to thrive, just as it has in the past, for the glory of God and joy of his people. And, I’m grateful that you’ll be a part this great journey.
Here is my encouragement to you from God’s Word:
Ezra 10:4: Rise up; this matter is in your hands. We will support you, so take courage and do it. 
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Why Habits of Happiness?

happinessI can’t wait to start preaching again this weekend. Our new series is called “Habits of Happiness” and it will take us through a really cool letter Paul wrote to some friends in a major city called Philippi. We usually do one or two book studies each year and I had decided several months ago that this fall we’d walk through Philippians. Then my circumstances changed. I had been promising Bren for some time that the year I turned 50 I would follow up on some neglected medical stuff. I’m not much for bothering doctors. I figure they have important stuff to do and my little aches and pains weren’t all that important. Well, as it turned out there were four things that needed surgical attention in my abdomen. So I spent this summer having blood work, and tests, and more tests, and sitting in doctors offices. Finally a few days in the hospital put me on the road to a new me. It wasn’t how I envisioned my summer and I didn’t always choose a good attitude about it all. Bren tells me I’m not a very good patient.

However, because I knew I would be preaching through Philippians this fall I spent a lot of time just reading through that letter. The more I understood the circumstances from which Paul was writing (he’s in prison, among other things) and the attitude with which he wrote, the more impressed I became with how he chose to be happy in spite of his circumstances. So I started looking for the clues to Paul’s incredible ability to choose to be happy no matter what. Paul’s faith was so transformational, his attitudes were so shaped by his identity and position in Christ that he developed a sturdy and unshakable attitude that enabled him to thrive no matter what was happening around him.
I already have the first couple talks written and I can’t wait to get to them this weekend. I think God is going to do some great things in the next nine weeks as we walk through Philippians from the perspective of learning from Paul about how to be happy. I’m certain this series will encourage you if you know Jesus. If you don’t know Jesus yet this series will help you understand some of the key differences between walking alone and walking with Him.
I hope you’ll invite your friends because I’m praying that God is going to use this series to reach a lot of people.
Thanks for the honor of being your pastor, see you this weekend!
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Hey ebc!

I can’t wait to get back with our ebc family this weekend. I’ve been working part time for the last few weeks and I’m healing wonderfully! Thanks so much for your prayers, for the cards and notes!
I’m really excited about the “Habits of Happiness” series that launches next weekend. It’s a verse by verse walk through a very personal letter written by Paul to a church he planted. I hope you’ll invite someone to join you as we learn how to develop habits that create happiness!

Now, I have a favor to ask of you. A request, if you will. Most everybody knows ebc is working through some options to position our church to continue to reach people in a vibrant way for many years to come. In a few weeks the elders have to make a decision between three options that have been laid out in the “Living Beyond Ourselves” series. The first option is to retool and reorganize from the inside out. The second option is to develop a strategic partnership with another church and the third option is to merge with another church. Before making a decision the elders are meeting with everyone that’d like to meet with them to hear advice and answer questions. Over the next two weekends you can chat with them after the Saturday evening gatherings, or during the 9:30 or 11:00 gatherings on Sunday. Special meetings have been set up with each ministry department to meet with leaders and volunteers. I hope you’ll take a few minutes to let the elders know your perspective. And by all means ask any questions you have.membership
But, I want you to understand that this is the only the beginning of the communication. After the elders make a decision a whole new round of opportunities will take place to answer questions and hear feedback. Ultimately, even though our bylaws don’t require it, we’ll be giving the whole family an opportunity to affirm the decision recommended by the elders. If you haven’t seen the two talks that are a part of “Living Beyond Ourselves” please go to our web site and catch up. We want you to be a part of every step we take.
This is a great time to be a part of ebc! We are one of the 100 fastest growing churches in the U. S. and God has placed at a perfect place to stoke the fire to reach the whole Susquehanna Valley! Our best days are yet ahead and God has placed you here at a crucial point in our history.
I love our church, thanks for the honor of being your pastor.
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A Special Note From Pastor Scott

surgeonSo, this is fifty.

I turned 50 on Sunday. I’ve never thought much about birthdays but this one felt a bit different. Don’t get me wrong, it was fun. I spent Sunday morning preaching and then when I got home Bren had black balloons around the house and she had put about 100 sticky notes all around the house celebrating things about me. That was awesome, probably the best birthday present ever. Fifty. People older than me tell me I’m middle aged and those younger tell me I’m officially old. Whether I’m middle aged or or old I know that I want my next 20 years to be more productive than the last 20 years.

I’ve not done a very good job of taking care of myself. While I have always exercised quite a bit I’ve never really eaten well and until this summer I hadn’t officially been to a doctor since the 90′s. I promised Bren and myself that when I turned fifty I’d get things checked and make sure I’m on track. I also promised I’d do whatever it took to learn to have a more functional relationship with food. I’ve always been a bigger guy, but the last decade brought with it forty pounds! So, I visited a doctor friend and we talked about my history and various symptoms that I’d been ignoring. I also visited a counselor and a nutritionist to start the journey of changing my relationship with food. A few tests later I was on high blood pressure medication and in line for a couple surgical procedures that are going to change my lifestyle moving forward. My gall bladder is coming out, for a couple reasons I’m having a gastrectomy (part of my stomach is being removed) and a couple hernias need to be repaired. Basically, next week, I’ll be getting my oil changed so I’m good to go for another 20 years, hopefully, in high gear.
I share this here so our whole family can have the same information. It’s been funny. As word got out that I was having some testing done I learned from different folks that I had some kind of liver disease, others told me my problem was my kidneys and someone even had me dying (which, I guess I am). None of my “issues” are serious and I’ll be up and running like new in a couple weeks or less.
I’m all in at ebc for the next phase our mission. I’m getting tuned up to run hard, and I’m more excited than I’ve ever been to walk by your side as we pursue this mission for God’s glory and our joy.
Thank you for your ongoing grace as I serve as your pastor. I’m the luckiest guy I know!
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A Note From Pastor Scott

2014-01-11 10.13.11ebc is a gift. It is a trophy of God’s grace. That means that we don’t deserve to be the growing, vibrant church family that we are, but God chose to make it happen for his glory.

As a leader, working with the elders, it’s my job to constantly look toward the future and ask the question “What do we need to do now so we’re ready for what will happen down the road?” All of our easy growth and impact has happened. Our building is serving far more people than it was designed to serve. Our staff is doing an incredible job serving our family through systems that were designed for far fewer people. For well over a year the elders have been praying through our options as a family for our next steps. One key event that I now see as hinge point in our discussions happened through a mentor that God provided for our elders. His name is Bernie May Jr and he is a missionary kid who recently retired as a Vice President of State Farm Insurance Company. Bernie is a gifted organizational thinker who has helped a number of Christian non-profits. He loves the Lord and graciously volunteered his time to serve our elders. He even paid his own travel expenses from his home in Ohio to come on a few occasions to spend time with our men. Bernie challenged our elders to think of their organizational responsibility as representing the interests of the owner. What outcomes does the owner desire? What policies should be in place that guide how those outcomes would be achieved? What key personnel need to be in place and what authority do they need to accomplish those outcomes? What kind of monitoring and accountability structures would the owner want?
One thing that can be very hard for church leaders is balancing the tension that exists between the various constituencies that are served. Long term members have different needs and desires than those yet to be reached. Volunteers make everything happen and have different needs and expectations than employees on staff. Balancing the tensions can cloud the decision making process. With the new clarity afforded by the priority of representing the interests of the owner the elders were able to begin to see more clearly. They established three distinct options which I blogged about here.
No decisions have been made. And, over the next two weekends we’ll be talking about our future and the issues and options that we’ll face as a family. We’ll be starting a conversation. I hope you’ll be able to make it. Our best days are yet ahead and you’re here for the launch of a very special chapter in the life of our ebc family and the Susquehanna Valley.
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On Ferguson and Talking Too Much

fergusonThere has been no getting away from the events of Furgeson, Mo. this week as a young black man was shot and killed during an encounter with a police officer. Riots and looting have consumed the narrative of our country while our culture becomes increasingly polarized. In spite of the reality that the facts of what actually happened during that encounter have not been uncovered or released everyone from the talking heads on news shows to regular folks on facebook have been trumpeting their opinions as if somehow they have the last and final word on the tragedy.

How can we as followers of Jesus charged with reflecting his glory navigate situations like this without becoming part of the problem?
First, James nails it when he wrote (1:19) be quick to listen, slow to speak and slow to get angry. Isn’t it amazing how loudly we can express strong opinions without even knowing what actually happened? I’ve been purposeful to watch news coverage from a few different organizations as they report about what’s happening in Ferguson and I’ve been amazed at how radically different perspectives can be based on personal bias.
So first, be quiet. Our opinions are not as important as we think they are. In fact, our opinions just add to the polarizing of our culture and accomplish essentially nothing else.
Second Listen. We are horrible listeners. We’re too busy talking, and when we are listening we’re usually listening to someone we agree with which emboldens our perspective even more. The truth is I’m a white middle class male. I have had opportunities that have come to me because of that. I just have. All three of my sons were raised as white middle class men. Partly because of their cultural heritage, they all have college educations and one of them is a police officer in a metro area. There is no way I can look at the events surrounding Ferguson objectively. I don’t need to saturate myself with more of what I already know. I need to try and empathize with what it might be like to grow up as a poor African American in the inner city. The truth is that these situations are never as cut and dried as we want them to be. Reality is always messier than the polarizing arguments we use to describe it.
Justice really matters to God. He invented it. Pray for it. But in the midst of praying for justice, show mercy to everyone. You can’t take a breath without mercy from God. Every second of every day you exist you drink deeply of mercy because God has chosen not to give you what you deserve. We have an opportunity to bring much needed refreshment to our culture by being merciful in the midst of a emotionally charged circumstance.
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Wedding Dresses and Being Missional

refuse serviceI’m breaking my own rule again. I’m going to address something that is far too complex for a short blog post, but heck, rules were made to be broken. There has been much in the news in our area lately about the owner of a bridal shop who refused to sell a wedding dress to a lesbian couple. Not surprisingly, the outcry has been loud and polarized as we tend to have a really hard time talking to one another when we feel strongly about things. The engaged couple just wants to get married and the couple that owns the bridal shop just wants to be faithful to how they understand their faith. I know that the couple that owns the bridal shop has received vicious communications and threats (I don’t know them personally). That’s probably true of the engaged couple too. We’re really good at demonizing people rather than talking to them.

As followers of Jesus, how do we navigate issues like this?

The Apostle Paul was a guy who hated Christians until he became one. He was a very well educated and bright man. He wrote a letter to a church that gathered in a place called Corinth. They were having huge problems. People were getting drunk at communion, they were discriminating against poorer people, and there were some major sexual sins going on in the church. Here is a section of what he wrote (5:9-12): When I wrote to you before, I told you not to associate with people who indulge in sexual sin. 10 But I wasn’t talking about unbelievers who indulge in sexual sin, or are greedy, or cheat people, or worship idols. You would have to leave this world to avoid people like that. 11 I meant that you are not to associate with anyone who claims to be a believer yet indulges in sexual sin, or is greedy, or worships idols, or is abusive, or is a drunkard, or cheats people. Don’t even eat with such people. 12 It isn’t my responsibility to judge outsiders, but it certainly is your responsibility to judge those inside the church who are sinning.

There is a place for holding people to biblical standards and that place is the church. There are people to gently, graciously and patiently hold accountable to biblical standards and those people are Christ followers. I affirm that a business owner ought to be able to do business with whomever they want. That’s a business decision and if a company is privately held the owners are free to make those decisions and to live with the consequences whether they’re profitable or not. But to deny service to a particular group because of a particular sin is a very difficult thing with which to be consistent. Should a Christian restaurateur refuse service to a glutton (sheesh, most churches I know don’t think anything of gluttony)? Should a bridal company owned by Christians sell to divorcees?

Peter gives us a very succinct principle for how to navigate the complexities of society (1 Peter 2:9b) …you can show others the goodness of God, for he called you out of the darkness into his wonderful light. He then goes on to say (v.12) Be careful to live properly among your unbelieving neighbors. Then even if they accuse you of doing wrong, they will see your honorable behavior, and they will give honor to God when he judges the world.

 The truth is that we can’t impact people with whom we refuse to be in relationship. Jesus was constantly in trouble with the religious leaders of his day for hanging out with those who really needed him. As the church we need to be really careful about asking people to behave like we think Christians should behave when they may not even be Christians (truthfully, we don’t behave like Christians very much either).

So maybe we can take a breath and remember our purpose for being in the world as Christ followers in the first place. 

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Can’t We Get Over Being Missional?

missionalOur church is a missional church. To us, that means that we don’t exist for ourselves we exist for a mission that is outside of ourselves. We exist not to satisfy our own theological curiosity or to supply a pleasant social life with like-mined Christian people. We exist to introduce the communities we serve to God and to help them live life in response to his revelation of himself.

Fundamentally, that’s what is different about us. Often, churches drift toward being about themselves. They’re about pleasing the people that are a part of the group by giving them what they want (that’s why churches fight so much, it’s hard to agree on what everyone wants). I’m not saying that is necessarily a bad thing, it’s just not us. It’s not what God is asking us to do. And it’s certainly not something to which I’m willing to give my life. My guess is you’re not either.
So, why are we a missional church? Or maybe a better way to say it is why must we be a missional church? Or still better, why can’t we be anything but a missional church?
The short answer is this: It is inappropriate to separate the mission of God from the study of God.
Far too often the church has separated theology (the study of the character and nature of God) from missiology (the study of God’s mission).
God has revealed himself in his Word. Through the Bible we know that God is holy, sovereign, all-knowing, omnipresent, gracious, just, loving and all-powerful. Knowing those truths about God is important. Having a sense of the vast, perfect nature of God is vital to following him. It’s a good thing to study God’s revelation about himself and we should do that.
However, it’s worth asking why God chose to reveal himself in his Word. Is God’s desire that his creation be able to have some intellectual understanding of who he is, or is there something deeper involved?
Here’s the thing. The Bible doesn’t just present a God that is. The Bible presents a God that is on a mission. The Hebrew Bible (OT) and the New Testament alike reveal that God’s revelation of himself is for the purpose of inviting us to a relationship with him (Duet. 6:5; Luke 10:27). The invasion of earth by God himself in the form of Jesus shows that God is not only on a mission, but that he is willing pay dearly for that mission.
God reveals himself to invite us to love him, to find, in him, new life. Better life.
A missional church refuses to separate what God reveals about himself theologically from what he does missionally. In fact, our theology gets wacky (that’s a technical term) when it’s separated from the mission, and our mission gets soft when it’s separated from our theology.
When my goal is simply to learn God becomes an abstract figure to be studied. When my goal is only to help people I have nothing of substance to offer them that has any real hope for them (except just becoming like me and who would want that?!).
But, when I learn about God in the context of his passionate mission to save me I become consumed by a relationship that changes me as I offer a hand to others who need the same thing.
That’s why we’re a missional church and we refuse to be anything but a missional church.
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